I remember when I was out of work and surviving on just my Rap income. Im not on a major label so shyt was hectic. I had rent,cable,lights and phone bills to pay. I hated dating sometimes because my money was funny and I couldn't do what I wanted to do on a date. "I Treats my self I doesn't cheats my self" Now I have two jobs not including my record company to run. I am mad bizzy. I was thinking about this and i tripped off the fact I was getting allot more pussy when i was broke. WTF? yeah right but its true. I thought long and hard about this and I came to several conclusions.
One:
There are alot of women out there that want to rescue & take care of a man. In essence the wish to feel needed and what kinda man needs you more than a broke bum.
Two:
Allot of women are insecure and a powerful brother with allot of things on the ball intimidates them. I would even go as far as to say they feel they don't deserve or couldn't possibly keep such a man.
Third(and far from the least):
WOMEN WANT,NEED & DEMAND TIME & ATTENTION!!! A bum cat can give a woman all the time and attention she desires. He'll watch the kids,drop you off and pick you up from work and of course fuck you when and where ever because hell,he aint got shyt else to do.
So you see allot of women who got shyt on the ball fucking with a handsome,hung,smooth talking bum. Im the first to be like "hey if that's the way a sista wants it cool". Men have played the role of "Suga Daddies" for the longest
Im just making an observation though. Because what I've noticed in the past is that at some point a woman wants a negro to get up off his ass & do something besides pound the pussy. If this is the case woman need to recognise that some of the attention they demand a "bout it bout it" brotha cant just give to them all the time. a sista needs to realise im not being disrespectful when I cant speak with you all day but call you at 10pm wanting to see you. Hey I've been bizzy working,I've just gotten off work and im thinking off you in the worst'est way(y'all know what I mean :))What im trying to say that women need to look at it from all angles. You really cant have your cake & eat it too. We hard working brothers work so hard to be able to do and have all the nice things women love & like to do. I know we hard working types need to take more time out for the women we love(and lawd knows im working on this)but recognize when the bum still hasn't gotten a job 8-months into the relationship your compensating time & attention in the place of financial stability or when the bum gets bizzy and soon doesn't have the time he use to have for you he's doing so as a labor of love. A love for you but more so a love for himself. See the Hugh could never be a bum ass niccauh. "Why?" Because I love me. Hell my downs have been ups for other types of dudes.Just peep game ladies and lets work together to stay together better(ya know?)
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ReplyDeleteRight on the money, but for quality ladies you need quality time you can't just call for loving and nothing else. That will get you sitting by yourself on the shelf dusty and mad. Nice blog though I can dig it.
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